Update (December 2017 to April 2018)

Hey Readers,

Sorry for leaving everyone in the dark. Been a busy past few months – let me get you up to speed.

In December we made an offer on a townhouse here in San Diego. After negotiating the price, we finally had one of our offers accepted. It was then time to pack. I did about 90% of the move on my own, boxing up stuff each night after work. January rolled around and it was time to move. We got the keys to our new place and I immediately started painting. Luckily I was able to take off work for two weeks and complete the job with the help of a friend. After that I began the task of moving our belongings to the new place (again on my own). March was busy as I headed to Budapest for 10 days and once I returned I never got back on my feet. Work dragged me under and it is only now that I can come up for air.

I am now back to my goal of making at least one post per week – let’s see how it goes.

Have a great day – and if in San Diego or Southern California, enjoy the sunshine!


Europe 2017: Sweden, Denmark, Germany

Life is finally getting back to normal – of course, that depends on how you measure normal or define it. I think it is amazing how we get so wrapped up in how busy we are, that we do much of what we do without really thinking about it. Getting the mail or watering the plants, doing laundry, washing dishes, etc, etc, etc. After being gone for an entire month it astonished me how much work I had to catch up on that normally didn’t phase me. In the end, it is finally all done and life is going on like clockwork (I just wish those dishes would do themselves…).

Now back to the fun stuff, what I really want to write about. In this post I am going to write just a tidbit about each place and then let the pictures do the talking.

We left San Diego on August 7th. The bags were packed, the itinerary planned, this was the day that we leave for Europe. After flying via LAX, we landed at Stockholm Arlanda at 10am, grabbed the bags and took the express train to Stockholm.

Stockholm is a gorgeous city. Lake. Sea. Islands. I fell in love with Stockholm; and I think Sweden for that matter. It probably wasn’t just the perfect combination of cityscape and nature that got to me, maybe it was also the fact that I filled up to my hearts content with cinnamon rolls and meatballs. Highlights include Gamla Stan (the Old City), the Vasa Museum, the ABBA Museum, Stadshuset (City Hall), day-trips to Uppsala and Mariefred. I truly believe Sweden is one of those countries that has something to offer everyone; whether it be a foodie, history buff, ABBA fan (or fan of music in general, fashionista, someone outdoorsy. The list could go on and on – but I think it holds true – Sweden is dynamic and open for all.


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After Stockholm, it was a five hour train journey to Copenhagen, Denmark.

Copenhagen was probably not given the time it deserved; planned only as a stopover on our way to Berlin. In my original plan Copenhagen/Denmark was getting a full three days. Nevertheless, for the little time it was given, Copenhagen delivered an array of things for us to do within brief stop. We of course saw The Little Mermaid, the Marble Church, Amalienborg Palace, colorful Nyhavn, Danish National Museum and lastly we ate at Ida Davidsen (famous for her exquisite open-faced sandwiches). In all honesty these are just a few of the highlights; our stopover was a full 24 hours of jam packed touring. Copenhagen surprised me in the sense that I didn’t expect more, and I didn’t expect less – it was just right (especially for a city in which I didn’t use public transport at all). My expectations and experience matched up and that made it very enjoyable.


We left Copenhagen for Berlin via ferry across the Fehmarn Belt and Hamburg. Have you ever been on a train that was loaded onto a ferry, cross the sea and then have the train drive off again?

Berlin – you either love it or hate it. I for one am in the gray zone on that one. We made room for three full days in Berlin before we’d spend the next two weeks in southern Germany. Like I said – for me it is a gray zone feeling on this city. On the one hand it has great history, food isn’t half bad, sightseeing overload, great public transport……but it’s also pretty gray. Compared to Hamburg or Munich (both of which I’m more fond of), Berlin just doesn’t live up to standards fully and it’s just not my kind of vibe. That being said Berlin is growing on me – those three days made a difference. We of course went to the top of the Fernsehturm, walked along the East Side Gallery of the Berlin wall, took in the government quarter of the Reichstag and the Brandenburg Gate, etc, etc, etc. I had been to Berlin before, so for me much of this was a recap, but nonetheless enjoyable. I think however the one major transition for me was seeing “The One Grand Show” at the Friedrichstadt-Palast with costumes by the famous fashion designer Jean Paul Gaultier. This revue show changed my opinion of the city and I can see myself once again going to Berlin…maybe just not for a few years.


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From Berlin, it was on to Munich and southern Germany.

Coming to this corner of the globe always feels like a homecoming. I get to see my family, my friends, and of course the beautiful city of Munich. It feels like a dream sometimes and you wake up at the airport and feel overwhelmed that you wish there was more time. This part of the trip was great as we spent two days with my family in the Black Forest, a day with my family in rural Bavaria, and I spent time with my aunt in Munich. I also met up with a friend of mine for lunch and caught up with each other after nearly 20 years! Some highlights also included a day trip to Neuschwanstein, sightseeing around Munich, and last but not least; all the amazing beer, pretzels, and Bavarian food I could eat for two weeks.



Hey Readers,

I am finally back from Europe (Sweden, Denmark, Germany) after what seems like a whirlwind month of travel, family/friend visits, and of course new experiences. I hope to post about it all within the next few weeks, but of course there is so much catching up to do in every other aspect of life right now (you can only imagine the pile of mail I have to sort).

So until then, I hope everyone had a great summer vacation, and I’ll be posting soon,


Blue Bow Tie Project

I’m coming home…I’m coming home…Tell the World I’m coming home.

It is finally time. After waiting over a year, I’m finally returning to Europe to see family, friends, and to spend a full month back where everything feels right.  I was in Germany this past February for 10 days, however, when you haven’t seen loved ones for over 2 years it is a glorious feeling to finally go back. I leave this coming Monday – August 7th and will not be returning until September 4th. Sweden, Denmark, Germany.

Starting out in Sweden – spending a full 8 days in the Swedish capital Stockholm and surrounding areas (Mariefred and Uppsala). Traveling by train, we then head to Denmark and spend two days in Copenhagen. From Copenhagen we are off to Berlin via train/ferry; we spend four full days in Berlin and the Brandenburg area. Next it’s Munich and Bavaria – for two weeks. During this two weeks, we will take 3 days to visit my family in the neighboring state of Baden – Württemberg, we will take a day or two to visit family in Bavaria, and of course visit friends and family in Munich.

Looking forward to posting when I return – Have a great rest of August and beginning of September!

Vacation Season

June is literally around the corner and I think to myself it is that time of year again; I call it the fifth season – Vacation Season. Some might say that it coincides with summer, however I define this fifth time of the year from the beginning of May until the end of September. We are currently in the upswing as students are finishing another year of school, and us adults are thinking of far away destinations, or perhaps a stay-cation. June is when it really picks up and people really have vacation on their mind. 

For me this time of year comes after what can be months of planning. Flights are booked, hotels picked, the research has been done; and now it is time to just do. This year for me can only be described as a bumper crop of travels. Starting in February I returned to Germany for 10 days. The ticket was too good to pass up; for a short trip to Europe it was a nice needed break. This however fell outside my normal traveling time and so I will focus on Vacation Season and my travels ahead.

Looking ahead to July, my partner and I have a 4 day stay in Lake Tahoe planned. An 8-hour drive north of us, straddling California and Nevada is North America’s largest Alpine lake. This is a very unplanned vacation for us, as all it requires is the car and a hotel which we’ve already taken care of. For once we are playing everything by ear, no set plans other than when we will arrive and depart the Lake Tahoe area. What we need is some real nature again – having lived in Wisconsin and now San Diego, we are missing the outdoors.

August on the other hand is completely different animal; one that has required the last 6 months of planning. Originally planned for May of 2016, my trip to Sweden and Denmark was cancelled a week before departure (a fact I am still a little sour about) due to our moving to San Diego. However, that trip has been resurrected and we will now be spending a full month in Europe – from Stockholm to Munich. What I can only describe as the longest journey I have yet to plan (and yes I plan/research everything down to the detail), this was a bigger undertaking than any trip prior.

Once we have crossed the fly-over states and wide ocean; 10 hours later we land in Stockholm, spending a full 7 days in the Swedish capital (including Mariefred and Uppsala). Crossing the Oresund via train, Copenhagen gets 1 ½ days of sightseeing before we are whisked away to Berlin for 4 ½ days. After Berlin, we board a train bound for Munich and southern Germany. The bulk of our time (13 full days) will be spent visiting family and friends besides sightseeing (mainly for my partner, as I have been to Munich/Bavaria many times).

This may all seem straightforward, however think about the journey times between these destinations, coordinating trains, etc. It is a bit daunting keeping it all organized, and with a less-flexible itinerary; it requires a lot of research as to when everything is open, how much it all costs, etc. Nonetheless I am beyond excited, as most of the work is already done; and now one can truly enjoy a very stress free getaway (with hopefully very few unwanted surprises).

Taking a Fika and Giving a Thank You…

Every day, usually sometime between 3 to 4 pm I like to take a coffee break – Fika as they say/do in Sweden. It is a moment to relax, enjoy a nice cup of coffee usually accompanied by a pastry or some sort of snack. Often in this time I sit and read the news or perhaps a good book; sometimes just quietly think to myself. Today during my Fika I thought about this week and the post I wanted to write. What I reflected on was you; yes, you…my readers.

Without a doubt taking a Fika is needed for me. I gather my thoughts, slow the pace down (even if for 20 minutes). What some do through yoga or meditation, I do through my coffee break. I have a little more clarity on the day that has passed, and I have a nicer view of the time left and what tomorrow will bring.

What I want to express this week is a much needed thank you to my readers. For those of you who are following me I thank you. It gives me purpose to continue writing when there are people to write for. Second for those of you who view and like my page/posts I thank you. I light up when I see how far and wide my posts are being read. All over the world, and that was my intention – bring all the corners a little closer. It never fails to amaze me literally how far away my words are reaching.

Thank you all again for reading – until next time.

A Travel Addict…

img_2647A well-known fact about me, that goes without saying to my close friends, co-workers, and family; I am a travel addict. To the readers of my page this will become apparent – it is not something I am ashamed of; rather proud actually. In a few days I embark on my 9th trip across the ocean – and my 10th in a few months. In this post I want to give advice about what I do to plan my trips from start to finish; more importantly how to save money without losing any part of the experience.

History Lesson…

Ever since my childhood I have been fascinated with travel. I was lucky to be part of a family that took long road trips every summer, so planning the tiniest details became second nature to me. The high of planning the route and picking hotels was a great learning experience (not to mention intoxicating) and I think that molded me for how I plan my trips to this day. Throughout Wisconsin and Minnesota, out to Wyoming every few years, down the Mississippi River to Missouri and Southern Illinois, even as far as Florida; all by car – this was my childhood travel.  I remember my parents planning the route meticulously, including stops, hotels, points of interest, etc.; spending hours preparing before even getting in the car. This inspired me and made me have a thirst for the wider world, there is so much to discover and what seems like so little time. 

Now for advice:

I have many internal rules of thumb that I follow regardless of location when planning to go abroad – if I can’t do the trip within these guidelines I don’t go. I always say that travel is possible even on the smallest budget – which is why I’ve been able to cross the Atlantic going on 10 times since 2006. I will focus on my upcoming trip to Hamburg/Northern Germany as an example of how I plan out where I’m going, for how long, and what’s my budget.

Rule 1: If I can’t book everything (flight, hotel, local travel, sights, spending cash) for less than $3000 I don’t go. Now that is an upper bound which I have never spent or come close to, however it is an upper bound because flights to Australia for example are more expensive than let’s say Canada or Europe, etc. Either way that is my self-imposed limit.  

Rule 2: Time is important – the number of full sightseeing days must be at least 7. If I can’t go abroad for at least 7 days then it isn’t worth my time or money. Time is important in the sense that my travel dates must be flexible to get the best price. I never set myself up by only being available to go during a certain time (this is why I book months in advance if possible).

Rule 3: If I am required to book a hostel/hotel, it must be near public transport (prefer subway, tram, and rapid transit – but not buses!), and/or walking distance to a grocery store (I don’t eat out for breakfast and sometimes lunch – I pack my own).

Rule 4: I plan my itinerary after I have my flights booked not the other way around. For example if I fly into Munich and out of Brussels that leaves a wide range of possibilities for destinations in-between and that allows me to determine how many days I spend in each place. I book my flights first because that is usually the biggest expense, and I want the best deal possible. It adds a sense of adventure because sometimes the best deals are to places you wouldn’t think of going. 

Rule 5: Consider all costs before booking anything! The flight may be cheap, but the hotels not so much – always find a great deal on flights first and keep the tab open; then search for hotels during the same time frame. For example a recent search of flights from LAX to London (LHR) found with Virgin Atlantic a ticket for $430 round trip! However London in general (hotels, restaurants, etc.) can be very expensive. Do the research before you book anything that can’t be refunded or cancelled free of charge.

So let’s time travel a few weeks back to the beginning of January. I get the travel bug really bad for most of the year, and of course I am always scouring the web for flight deals. So picture me sitting on my laptop searching my favorite carriers which include Condor, Icelandair, WOW air, and Norwegian Air Shuttle. This doesn’t mean that other carriers do not offer great deals, but I’ve found flights for as low as $480 round trip to even $70 one way. Now granted departure airports are limited as are destinations, but either way great deals can be found among these airlines. My number one destination will always be Germany, and of course I am usually looking for the cheapest flight to Munich, Frankfurt or similar at any time of the year. After searching Orbitz, Kayak, etc. I went to Condor. Now at that time, Condor was offering one ways for a little over $200, and since I have never flown to Europe for less than $700 round trip, this was a bargain. I found my flight to Frankfurt am Main (FRA) from San Diego (SAN) via Seattle (SEA) for $490 with Condor. Departing January 30th, return February 9th. The flights with Condor are only on select days so to determine the trip length I picked flights that gave me at least 7 days of sightseeing (my biggest rule, I want to spend at least a week abroad, otherwise paying for the trip is pointless).

Now granted Frankfurt is not my final destination, so next I need to find where I wanted to go once I landed. I have family in the south of Germany that I could stay with, however that option didn’t work out. Next I asked a friend in Hamburg if I could stay with him. I normally seek out my friends/family first before I invest any money in hotels/hostels. If I didn’t have the friend/family option, I would have needed to find accommodation, which when I searched was around $120 total for 9 nights at a hostel/low budget hotel (I always figure it’s just a place to rest, as long as it is clean, near a grocery store, and public transport; I will be happy). Finding accommodation that is near the city center without going over budget is always tough. Consider looking outside the city center but with access to public transport. When you consider the price of the accommodation will be less, coupled with the cost of your ticket on public transport, there can be a huge amount of savings for traveling maybe 10-15 minutes each day.

Once I knew that I would be going to Hamburg and that I didn’t need to find any sort of hotel/hostel, I looked at the train tickets to and from Hamburg. With Deutsche Bahn and almost any rail company, booking a few weeks/to at least a few days in advance will offer savings. For my ticket from Frankfurt Flughafen Fernbahnhof to Hamburg Hbf (main station) I paid $35 with ICE (InterCity Express). From Hamburg Hbf to Frankfurt am Main Hbf I paid $40 with ICE. If you can afford to keep your travel plans tight and not worry about flexible-tickets then you are guaranteed a deep discount. Now on my return to Frankfurt I needed to spend one night in a hotel since my flight was very early on February 9th. I found an easyHotel near the main train station for $35. Had I looked for a direct flight to Hamburg my flight costs would have easily doubled, which would make trying to go on a budget worthless.

So let’s break it down:

$490 for flight

$75 in long distance rail travel

$35 one night in Frankfurt hotel

That’s $600 if I stay with my friend – add on the $120 for 9 nights in a hostel/hotel if I had needed to do book one – that’s $720 for 10 days in Germany – a bargain when compared with spending $700+ on the flight alone! Spending cash and extras (entrance fees, local rail travel, etc.) I’ve figure around $300 to $400. That’s a total of $900 to $1000 for 10 days.

Lastly I don’t plan on spending all of my time in Hamburg. I will be using Hamburg as my base and traveling out 2-3 days while I am there. My itinerary includes Hamburg itself spread over a few days/half days, Bremen, Sylt, and Neuengamme. Of course my friend and I have planned an extensive list of activities that we will be going to together; including theater shows, dining out together, and a few attractions. I usually plan all of my getaways the same using one city as my base and then traveling out – the only time I change this rule is if I am visiting an entire country in one trip/visiting multiple countries spread over a few weeks.

Look for an update when I get back from Hamburg – Hansestadt (Hanseatic City), Tor zur Welt (Gateway to the World), aus Wind und Wasser geschaffen (Created from Wind and Water)!

Thanks for reading!

Backpack – J.Crew Harwick Backpack

Messenger Bag – Tom Tailor

Boots – Clarks for Tretter München (Exclusive for Tretter – Wool/Fur Lined)